[By proving to the conscious mind that you can create nothing other than decision it will then enter the subconscious removing and preventing the psychological disorder].
A person who is not completely happy, peaceful and satisfied with life has something missing in his or her life. The person thinks he or she can create what he or she is missing.
The person does not consciously think that he or she can create what is missing.
If the person is not thinking consciously that he or she can create what is missing, the person must be thinking subconsciously . Exactly what the person is thinking subconsciously can be discovered by observing the person's behaviour.
For instance, a person may think he or she can create acceptance and value. He or she will then try to create acceptance and value by eating excessive food, worrying, smoking, drinking, looking for friends, and hurting others. However, if the person’s thinking is wrong, the person may not actually be able to create what he or she is trying to create. Eating excessive food, worrying, smoking, drinking, looking for friends, and hurting others may not create what is missing. The person may not actually be able to create acceptance and value.
The cure for such thinking is not to tell a person to stop eating excessive food, worrying, smoking, drinking, looking for friends, and hurting others.
The cure for such thinking is not to give the person money.
The cure for such thinking is to not to put a person in a jail, in hospital or on medication.
The cure for such thinking is to discover a way to change the person's thinking at the subconscious level.
The way people think at the subconscious level must not be inherited, otherwise people in only some families would be completely happy, peaceful and satisfied.
It must not be a product of what a person eats, otherwise only people that ate certain foods would be completely happy, peaceful and satisfied.
It must not be a product of what a person does, otherwise only people that had certain jobs would be completely happy, peaceful and satisfied.
It must not be a product of what a person owns, otherwise, only people with money (or no money) would be completely happy, peaceful and satisfied.
It must not be a product of what a person looks like, otherwise, only skinny models would be completely happy, peaceful and satisfied.
It must not be a product of how many tattoos a person has, otherwise, only people with tattoos would be completely happy, peaceful and satisfied.
It must not be a product of how many relationships a person has, otherwise only people with multiple relationships would be completely happy, peaceful and satisfied.
It must not be a product of how much food you eat, otherwise only people that eat a heap of food would be completely happy, peaceful and satisfied.
It must not be a product of what music you listen too, otherwise only people that listen to certain music would be completely happy, peaceful and satisfied.
The way a person thinks at the subconscious level depends on what a person has been told at the subconscious level. This does not have to occur by hearing.
Speaking does not have to tell
Looking does not have to tell
Hurt does not have to tell
Pain does not have to tell
Friends does not have to tell
Family does not have to tell
Beauty does not have to tell
Money does not have to tell
Houses does not have to tell
Cars does not have to tell
Food does not have to tell
Exactly what has a person been told?
People have been told that they can create what they cannot create. They no longer understand that what they are trying to create has already been created. Their entire life becomes a matter of creating what they cannot create, an example of which is friends.
No matter what a person does, he or she still cannot trust anyone. This can include changing jobs, locations, friends, cars, and lifestyles.
However, if the person's thinking is wrong, changing jobs, locations, friends, cars and lifestyles may not create friends. Friends may have already been created.
How do you help a person to understand that they cannot create friends at the subconscious level?
You can explain to the conscious mind exactly why they cannot create friends.
[The CURE is to help you understand that Something else has already created what is missing in your life. When you understand that Something else has already created what is missing, you will no longer miss anything at all].
Fred likes mobile phones. He always carries one around in his pocket. One day Fred thought that his mother had his phone. He started missing his phone. He started taking some anxiety pills to help him cope with not having a phone.
If Fred's thinking is wrong, his mother may not have his phone. Fred may still have his phone in his pocket.
It is as easy to prove to a person that he or she cannot create friends as it is to prove to a person that he or she is not a stink beetle.
Fred thinks he is a stink beetle and he then starts acting like a stink beetle. He tries to fly, eat what stink beetles eat, and emit foul smells.
When you try to convince Fred that he is not a stink beetle, Fred asks you why you are not a stink beetle. However, you do not know why you are not a stink beetle. You then try to figure out why you are not a stink beetle.
You are not a stink beetle because you do not have four legs, wings, and funny looking eyes. You then tell this to Fred and Fred asks you why stink beetles have to have four legs, wings, funny looking eyes and emit foul smells. Why cant stink beetles have two legs, no wings, blue eyes, and not emit foul smells (only sometimes)?
Why are humans not stink beetles?
You are not a stink beetle because there is no point in you living if you are a stink beetle and you do not have four legs, wings, funny looking eyes and cannot emit foul smells. Why live if you cannot enjoy being a stink beetle?
Why live if you are a stink beetle and cannot do what stink beetles do?
Fred thinks he can create friends and then he starts feeling he has no friends. He then starts acting like he can create friends. He starts worrying about his appearance, he starts getting nervous when he talks, as he is concerned about offending someone, and he starts spending long times on Facebook.
When you try to convince Fed that he cannot create friends, Fred asks you why it is not possible to create friends. However, you do not know why it is not possible to create friends. You then try to figure out why it is not possible to create friends.
You figure it out, and tell Fred.
You cannot create friends because if you could create friends you would never not have them. You would always have friends.
This helps Fred, as he now understands why he cannot create friends. However, he is not very happy as he thinks he has no friends and will never have friends. He then starts acting like he has no friends and will never have friends.
When you try to convince Fred that he has friends, Fred asks you why he has friends. However, you do not know why Fred has friends. You then try to figure out why Fred has friends.
You figure it out, and tell Fred.
Something else has already created friends as you cannot create friends and there is no point in living if you will always have no friends.
Whoever creates friends must create friends.